October 13, 2001
The type of husband I don't want: one who is a slave to his job, who only cares for himself, who is obsesses with money, won't go to the Temple with me, head strong, quick temper, messy, lazy, a tight wad, unmotivated, or won't finish projects.
I want a husband who will love me enough he'd never raise his voice at me, turn his back on me, ignore me, speak unkindly to me, control me, or physically hurt me.
I was 21 when I wrote this. I would have never thought in 3 more years I'd marry someone who would do all the things I never wanted. Before I wrote what I didn't want, I wrote what I did want. The same things I wanted then are the same things I'm looking for now.
